Men Are Revealing The "Immediate No" Red Flags Women Need To Stop Doing On First Dates, And OMG

Published: Jul 21, 2026 3:31 PM • Updated: Jul 21, 2026 4:52 PM • Original source

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From asking “How big is it?” to literally taking a call from their ex mid-date, these red flags are practically on fire.

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